I was in a team where this just worked, and I've missed it ever since. I had another team essentially bully me out (by withholding information and not inviting

I was in a team where this just worked, and I've missed it ever since. I had another team essentially bully me out (by withholding information and not inviting me to meetings with the justification that "I didn't want that") when I tried to bring some of that culture over (and that was in the same company). It was a security team without any feature pressure, so their idea of working together was sit in a meet and chit-chat for a considerable time of that. And anyone asking anything was always directed at everyone - worse than an office with headphones. It was not fun. But even almost elsewhere else, so much communication goes on in direct messages or ad-hoc calls you're not invited to, it's not my idea of good remote culture.