I like that approach. Following on, there are people who disregard boundaries, with whom it is important to end or curtail relationships. One is not, however, r

I like that approach. Following on, there are people who disregard boundaries, with whom it is important to end or curtail relationships. One is not, however, rejecting them because of their beliefs, rather redefining the relationship because of their actions. It is possible to do that whilst maintaining respect for their humanity. Thank you. That's an insightful idea. [Edit, because glancing at your comment once again: Lol. "Avoid friction" is not part of my uncle Dan's makeup. He's one of those people who goes out of his way to create it. He's a bully, quite frankly. He's also my uncle, and so not someone I can avoid, without cutting myself off from a lot of other people I value highly. He's also not all bad. He's generous with his tools and time and advice when my car needs work. He's a good storyteller, and knows more about my family's history than anyone else in it. He's promised to protect me, even though I'm a Liberal, when the civil war he hopes will happen breaks out, and people like him get out their guns and start killing people like me. (Yes, literally.) That's... Um, the sort of topic I try to steer him away from.]