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My read is that he's just making the same point as the stoics (and I'm sure many others, I'm just most familiar with it from stoicism), to not expect or fall in
by sanderjd 3y ago
My read is that he's just making the same point as the stoics (and I'm sure many others, I'm just most familiar with it from stoicism), to not expect or fall into the trap of feeling entitled to good things. In stoicism, this is the point beneath the oft-caricatured practice of contemplating that death could come at any moment. If you don't expect or feel entitled to even just living from moment to moment, then it's (in theory) easier to see that each additional moment of life is a gift, and each good thing that does happen to you, all the more so.
Personally, I struggle to actually achieve serenity and positivity from this in practice, though I do find it compelling in theory.
- Brian_K_White 3y agoIt really depends who's saying it to you at the time. It's true that being able to cope instead of fall apart is a useful power for you. It's also true that anyone with any form of authority over you would love nothing better than for you to never demand anything.
- sanderjd 3y agoYes, but (and I may be saying something different than Huang here) demanding things is different than expecting them. The difference is in your response if the outcome is "no". Anger or serenity?