Both of those issues sound less like problems with the porn itself but there being so much stigma around it that we can't openly talk about what is real and wha

Both of those issues sound less like problems with the porn itself but there being so much stigma around it that we can't openly talk about what is real and what isn't. (Or "Normal", for lack of a better term here. Basically what doesn't require training to do) We have these discussions around R rated movies, Violent Video Games, and many other things. But if we could actually discuss porn and sex as naturally as we talk about these other things than people would actually properly understand what they are seeing. But we don't, and that is a societal problem.