I suggest you read this: https://radicalcontributions.substack.com/p/escalation-theory-compliance-violence-and-overachievement-in-society https://radicalcontrib

I suggest you read this: https://radicalcontributions.substack.com/p/escalation-theory-compliance-violence-and-overachievement-in-society https://radicalcontributions.substack.com/p/escalation-theor... It is really insightful about how we train ourselves for compliance, but how that training struggles to cope when we interact with violence escalaters (who are common in some parts of society). I live near a port town and face and threat of violence is easily visible in men and many women.