For databases it varies quite a bit. Among people who like to use an ORM, TypeORM is the current thing that is in widespread use. For non-ORM people, most use

For databases it varies quite a bit. Among people who like to use an ORM, TypeORM is the current thing that is in widespread use. For non-ORM people, most use pg or a similar thin-layer on top of raw SQL. In enterprise it was a lot of raw SQL as well, in large part because there was a lot of different DBs to support from db2 to SQL Server to Postgres