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> I'm concerned about the fairness of this decision to other team members who have been with us for over a year, contributing significantly to our project. Addi
by bhaney 3y ago
> I'm concerned about the fairness of this decision to other team members who have been with us for over a year, contributing significantly to our project. Additionally, I feel somewhat sidelined, as my friend and the new member often reach consensus without involving me in the preliminary discussions.
Literally just say that to them. You said they're a close friend, so you should be able to start off with a frank and reasonable discussion about it without beating around the bush. If you somehow can't come to an understanding, then involve a lawyer.
Honestly if I were in your position, I'd be more worried that my close friend and co-founder is already planning to marry someone that they've only been in a relationship with for less than a month. But maybe I'm just ignorant of their culture.
- user_7832 3y ago> Honestly if I were in your position, I'd be more worried that my close friend and co-founder is already planning to marry someone that they've only been in a relationship with for less than a month. Yeah, this is very unusual and could indicate some other "issues" (love-bombing? both sides simply being well-natured but immature?)
- cl0ckt0wer 3y agoLike Elsa said, you can't marry someone you just met.
- JBlue42 3y ago>Honestly if I were in your position, I'd be more worried that my close friend and >co-founder is already planning to marry someone that they've only been in a >relationship with for less than a month. But maybe I'm just ignorant of their >culture. This. Not to mention any type of drama this may continue to bring into the workplace.