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Probably you want to avoid signing an agreement that could necessitate actively lying to someone else. If already under such an agreement, find a way not to li
by neilv 3y ago
Probably you want to avoid signing an agreement that could necessitate actively lying to someone else.
If already under such an agreement, find a way not to lie.
Being proactive can help. The first example that comes to mind was when a highly-placed colleague (who I trusted, and with whom I had a good rapport) asked me directly whether I knew whether of anyone in the department who was job-hunting. I didn't know of any, but I told them I generally couldn't answer that question, as a matter of policy. Because that's the kind of question for which we can anticipate a hard conflict someday, between betraying a trust, and lying to someone else. And that's an easy conflict to avoid.
"If I knew, I probably couldn't tell you." is a useful phrase.