Consider this: What if your date finds you attractive already? Could be because of real or perceived popularity or high "status" in you? (I'm guessing you're a

Consider this: What if your date finds you attractive already? Could be because of real or perceived popularity or high "status" in you? (I'm guessing you're a man?) And maybe you're ok handsome? Then, what does it matter what you do during the days? If you're high status enough already -- what do the reasons for that matter? And so she'd rather talk about herself and her interests. When you mentioned you tried a second date, I thought, I bet she'll show up. (I suppose there are men who date cute women and they (the men) talk only about themselves and cars and soccer. What does it matter what she does during the days? When she's good looking already)