>...if you stand up to them, most often they will be afraid of losing face, and will choose to bully someone weaker instead. After losing a birth mother our fa

>...if you stand up to them, most often they will be afraid of losing face, and will choose to bully someone weaker instead. After losing a birth mother our family is going through some shit... this quote of yours captures well how the eventual-lawyer-brother pitted other brothers against one-another, and joining in to not be the targeted brother. I'm worried about neither job loss nor "whining," I just want to understand better.