As a slow thinker, I think many are missing a really important point, which I was hoping would come up. Sigh. Preparedness is not the solution for many unique

As a slow thinker, I think many are missing a really important point, which I was hoping would come up. Sigh. Preparedness is not the solution for many unique and many times life changing situations, where we do not have time to think, but have to make decision very quickly. And I have always failed at that, and created misunderstandings, pain. And having ADHD, slow processing brain, and some hearing loss, I have not seen any solution that would help me.