> The comments on NYT for this article are good. I had a hunch people who had experience caring for such children would show up in the comments, and probably be

> The comments on NYT for this article are good. I had a hunch people who had experience caring for such children would show up in the comments, and probably be moving. Note the heavy sampling bias here. Someone who is struggling to cope and secretly hates their "burden" probably won't want to comment.