Just a few points.... 1. Some decisions are better made than delayed. Most choices are reversible. So get over those being be important/relevant. 2. Everythin

Just a few points.... 1. Some decisions are better made than delayed. Most choices are reversible. So get over those being be important/relevant. 2. Everything else _should_ be thought through. Push for it. If that's not possible then you have to live with the consequences. These are most often sales traps though, see e.g. "scarcity" in "Influence: The psychology of persuasion" which covers deadlines. If you fail for these then please read the book or listen to the audio book. 3. Winning an argument is not just about thinking about arguments. See "The art of being right" for a set of arguing tactics that will make you look like you are dumb. 4. Fast good action is often a matter of turning it into a routine. That's what you do for incidents (gamedays), fire drills etc. If it matters then better be prepared! But on top of everything.... I've been doing on-call for years. I can tell you that bad decisions under time pressure and emotional stress are often bad and far from optimal. It's ok. It's human. The thing that makes me a bit uneasy is that it looks like you are stressing yourself on top of everything. You can get professional help for that too.