Focus on hearing and understanding others and communicating to them that you hear and understand them. This will make you appear intelligent and it will make yo

Focus on hearing and understanding others and communicating to them that you hear and understand them. This will make you appear intelligent and it will make you intelligent, and people will listen intently to you when you finally come around with your well thought ideas and perspective. You will be highly respected. Quit worrying about being quick-witted. Revenge is a dish best served cold.