I just fundamentally believe that most human traits aren't good or bad, they're situationally appropriate. Healthy integration of your traits means recognizing

I just fundamentally believe that most human traits aren't good or bad, they're situationally appropriate. Healthy integration of your traits means recognizing when your traits are appropriate and putting yourself into those situations, and recognizing when your traits are not appropriate, and leaning on the people in your life who have the traits that are appropriate for that situation. In your case, if you're a slow, methodical thinker, you need to have a few people at hand who are quick thinkers and can make snap decisions and assessments when it's appropriate to do so. I'm a quick, intuitive thinker, and I need people in my life who can slow me down and think through how my intuitions might be wrong. Neither of these is better than the other. Both are needed. Love yourself. :)