You're aware that plenty of people have a child and don't succeed on any of these levels? Many millions of people. Their children suffer for it, of course. Ha

You're aware that plenty of people have a child and don't succeed on any of these levels? Many millions of people. Their children suffer for it, of course. Having a child doesn't fix anybody. Suggesting that it does, through necessity, is nearly the stupidest thing an adult can say.