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> the knife is a secondary tool It is secondary overall, but during the act of cutting itself it is the primary tool — the fork merely holds the food in place.
by lukas099 3y ago
> the knife is a secondary tool
It is secondary overall, but during the act of cutting itself it is the primary tool — the fork merely holds the food in place. Thus the differing "European" and American etiquette standards for utensil-holding (maintain fork in left hand vs. switch when cutting).
("European" in quotes because it is not ubiquitous across Europe [1])
[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eating_utensil_etiquette https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eating_utensil_etiquette
What is most interesting to me is that we even have these arbitrary standards for social class judgement.
When I was in Europe I made myself surprisingly uncomfortable trying to emulate the utensil etiquette of the people I was eating with. It was doubly painful when we ate pizza, which I wanted to pick up, fold in half and eat with my hands.
- cnity 3y agoMy read on the utensil thing is that basically keeping the fork in the left hand feels more "rushed" and therefore less delicate/dignified. I'm from the UK and my wife is American, and when I'm over there I do notice that if I forget to adapt my technique I sort of feel a little undignified in the way I eat, comparatively. It's interesting.
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- lukas099 3y agoMaybe doing the harder thing feels more dignified, because for me it's the other way.