I suppose treatment could have helped, but she would not have accepted any kind of therapy or intervention where she had to do anything differently. I had my ow

I suppose treatment could have helped, but she would not have accepted any kind of therapy or intervention where she had to do anything differently. I had my own issues that mirrored hers (read about codependents and narcissists), but I eventually came to be conscious of the dynamic, and worked on fixing my side of it, which immediately made the relationship impossible.