> your rent money is literally doing nothing for you Your rent money is, but your down payment is not. Its getting at least a 5% return, and at best much more

> your rent money is literally doing nothing for you Your rent money is, but your down payment is not. Its getting at least a 5% return, and at best much more than that. And renting is cheaper than buying right now, because interest rates are high for current buyers BUT NOT current owners; supply and demand will presumably change that over time, but i.e. I can rent out our Austin home pretty cheap as is; if I'd bought it today and rented it out, I'd need to charge MUCH more to break even. I agree you should buy what you want and use the payments as the guide; and maybe you can re-finance in the future. But when I plug payments into investment calculators, buying the home isn't coming out ahead of investing the down payment and renting instead.