This sounds like something I would have said before living with someone with ADHD. It would take a long time to explain adequately. But to summarize, neurodive

This sounds like something I would have said before living with someone with ADHD. It would take a long time to explain adequately. But to summarize, neurodivergence can be a pervasive, debilitating problem for people, and medication is in many ways a miracle cure. And the solutions you suggest require the exact type of executive function that sufferers are lacking. Of course it would be nice to wave a wand and change society instead, but that's not going to happen.