I am not in the US market, but your comments reflect more on your identified biases than statistical reality. You appear to be obsessed with a very unhealthy s

I am not in the US market, but your comments reflect more on your identified biases than statistical reality. You appear to be obsessed with a very unhealthy subculture focused on Chads and sex: perhaps you need to avoid whatever cesspit that is infecting your mind. Avoiding subcultures that damage you is a general skill that requires effort and practice. My personal current danger is alcohol and pubs. Statistics show that men with lots of sexual partners are often having sex with women that have lots of partners. I suspect you would especially find that in self-selecting markets like Tinder. > hence massively shrinking the number of women available. That is just irrational thinking - even though popular with some subcultures. There are plenty of women out there - you must notice that even in your own experience - it is unavoidably obvious. If you are a nice guy that wants a family, then change your selection criteria until you find someone worthwhile living a long time with. My guess is you have unreasonable criteria - wanting 10s (similar to your projected accusations against women). Teaching oneself to be less judgemental is very very worthwhile. If you wished to catch Chad-chasers then it is achievable to become a Chad: there's lots of resources about that. Beware: it doesn't appear to be a very satisfying lifestyle for the people I know that are into it. I'm middle-aged so I also see some of the longer term outcomes. The men I know that have the most multiple sexual partners are ugly or average - their strategies depend on other factors than their looks. Not having Chadian good looks is just a pathetic excuse. Most importantly: having negative beliefs about women as a group is incredibly destructive. Every person is unique - treating women like stereotypes is unhealthy. Noticeably you are complaining about stereotypes of men. Anyone can find a partner. The first step is learning how to be a good partner. Teaching yourself positive traits is hard. Avoiding negative traits is harder. I do it by have having female friends and encouraging them to train me not to be a dick. Listening to criticism is hard, not attacking back is hard, then making the effort to change behaviour is a lifelong struggle. And it definitely isn't about being a nice doormat (although I admit I try to be too nice - making the world a better place is somewhat submissive - but mostly cooperative).