That maturity is the result of both experience and luxury that one's base needs are met. > What's being described here are communication problems due to inexpe

That maturity is the result of both experience and luxury that one's base needs are met. > What's being described here are communication problems due to inexperience rather than the actual "game". It's only a communication problem in the way that world hunger is a communication problem. For most intents + purposes, it's the actual game. I watched a video about a holiday event at a huge public-works soup kitchen (?) in India. They interviewed a guy who said: "Normally we get rice and daal, today we have paneer and (whatever) as well, by the grace of God!" His attention is on the first-order reality of the food going into his stomach. A more sophisticated/privileged person would abstract up, and say something like "It's nice to see everyone coming together on this special day" , trading in the physical reality for a social one. Sex is the same way, not as immediate as food but still life-or-death in its own way.