"Children begin by loving their parents; after a time they judge them; rarely, if ever, do they forgive them." -- Oscar Wilde For me it's exactly the opposite.

"Children begin by loving their parents; after a time they judge them; rarely, if ever, do they forgive them." -- Oscar Wilde For me it's exactly the opposite. When I was a teenager I was always afraid and deferential of my parents, now I can't help but see them as narcisistic and abusive.