> the other 20% of the stress are your reports actively trying to undermine you, or publicly question your purpose/existence, or cut you out of decision making

> the other 20% of the stress are your reports actively trying to undermine you, or publicly question your purpose/existence, or cut you out of decision making processes, going behind your back and contradicting previous agreements, trying to short-circuit or subvert agreed processes etc etc The worst part about this? It's just in some people's nature to do this. I'm a manager in the public service so it's basically impossible for even the CEO of my organisation to go "oh, that undermining backstabber guy is way better than spangry, let's fire spangry and replace him with undermining backstabber guy". And yet one of my reports constantly does this kind of thing anyway. It's utterly inexplicable.