Definitely need antagonism. Any time I build a helper prompt I have to force the LLM to be rude. How do I know if my assumptions are correct? Or if I am even

Definitely need antagonism. Any time I build a helper prompt I have to force the LLM to be rude. How do I know if my assumptions are correct? Or if I am even aware of all the assumptions I am making? Is making a boat in the desert the right move?