If she was using your money, would that not be some kind of "unauthorized spending" that you could "report" to your bank? I'm not just talking about preparing f

If she was using your money, would that not be some kind of "unauthorized spending" that you could "report" to your bank? I'm not just talking about preparing for divorce but even other expensive purchases. But I can imagine that it's probably near impossible if you're married with a joint bank account... I would still suggest speaking with a lawyer about this if you haven't already, but nonetheless I wish you the best. Perhaps consider the money the "cost" of getting rid of person who needed to go anyway.