> folks I was not compatible with in any stretch of the imagination This is really within my control, right? I found being very specific about my interests and

> folks I was not compatible with in any stretch of the imagination This is really within my control, right? I found being very specific about my interests and requirements. If I’m going on dates with people I have poor compatibility then I need a better profile. And need to ask more questions beforehand. What was interesting to me is that there are lots of friendly people who will say “yes” to a date. So I put specific questions like instead of “must have sense of humor” add “must relevantly quote Monty python within the first three days messaging” and then filter based on it.