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Not to give OP fuel for his fire, but just to be real because I am so sick of seeing these misleading comments all over the internet: It's not just finding a w

Not to give OP fuel for his fire, but just to be real because I am so sick of seeing these misleading comments all over the internet: It's not just finding a woman who is willing. It's finding a woman who is a quality person that you have an attraction to that is willing. When you are a woman who is sane, smart, have your life together, and is decent looking, you have many choices for a partner. Many of these woman can easily find high quality men who are their own age and have the same life situation. So while yes, it does happen that the 50 yr old guy meets the amazing 33 yr old woman. Far more often than not, the amazing 33 yr old woman meets to amazing 33 yr old guy. Unless you are down with divorced w/kids. Then it gets much easier. But you will be second to her kids.

trashtester 3y ago
> So while yes, it does happen that the 50 yr old guy meets the amazing 33 yr old woman. Far more often than not, the amazing 33 yr old woman meets to amazing 33 yr old guy. This is absolutely true, well at least if you include those amazing people who met even earlier than 33. Amazing people tend to have options whether they are male, female or even other. Those less amazing (the remaining 60-80%, depending on who's counting), often have to lower their standards or expectations in some way, unless they're lucky and find a special soulmate. Indeed, if someone is 35+ and still single, chances are their expectations are not aligned with what they themselves have to offer. I've been there myself. Only when I decided that I did NOT want to remain single for the rest of my life and became serious about finding a partner did that change. And it changed virtually overnight.