when they say California is more neutral, that just means the wife can be a sex worker who smokes weed and that won't automatically invalidate her character, cl

when they say California is more neutral, that just means the wife can be a sex worker who smokes weed and that won't automatically invalidate her character, claims, or cause child protective services to descend upon your lives. and its bad that other states would without more information, I just wouldn't take that to mean California is anything progressive with regards to men, which maybe makes your experience make more sense.