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I read an article a long time ago that was a series of interviews with poorer women who had multiple kids asking the same question. The answer surprised and stu
by angmarsbane 3y ago
I read an article a long time ago that was a series of interviews with poorer women who had multiple kids asking the same question. The answer surprised and stuck with me. The women had children they could not afford because it gave them status (a role to play in society) and meaning. They were Moms, and Moms had a degree of respect in their communities that single childless women did not have. Also - their children loved them, and with their children they were not alone and unloved. In an economic scenario where their prospects were unlikely to change having children provided them with love and status / a role in society.
- silverquiet 3y agoI'm reasonably certain that it is not just the poor who have children as status symbols.