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Yeah this ends up being exactly what I do, in addition to avoiding high-conflict individuals altogether. I can't handle the actual headache of keeping up with e
by jstarfish 3y ago
Yeah this ends up being exactly what I do, in addition to avoiding high-conflict individuals altogether. I can't handle the actual headache of keeping up with everyone's arbitrary titles. I'm not your Tumblr mutual or a goddamn MUSH engine.
I'll humor transpeople since they offer some visual cue in either direction but enbies are deliberately obtuse and go ballistic when you get it wrong. I have more issue playing ball with them since this cycle amounts to coercive obedience training.
- pavel_lishin 3y agoPerhaps people "go ballistic" because you're refusing to respect them, and "humor" them instead?