I believe some people need to talk about trauma (ie a cop that gets shot on), but some people wrap it up in their head and place it on a mental shelf. Such peo

I believe some people need to talk about trauma (ie a cop that gets shot on), but some people wrap it up in their head and place it on a mental shelf. Such people are not helped by well-meant “victim support” saying over and over that what they went through wasn’t easy and was certainly “not nothing”. Probably depends on de magnitude of the trauma but cutoffs are likely highly personal.