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Doesn't matter what you would call an instance of a criminal, tho. Creepiness happens prior to victimization. Men are more violent. Women are associated with vi
by jijijijij 3y ago
Doesn't matter what you would call an instance of a criminal, tho. Creepiness happens prior to victimization. Men are more violent. Women are associated with violence less, consequently they are less likely perceived as a risk by default. A sense of danger is required for creepiness.
I think we both know, that's how it is, if we're being honest. no?!
Would you rather hitchhike with a man, or a woman? Would you rather pick up a group of female or male hitchhikers?
- kragen 3y agoi would rather hitchhike with a man or pick up a male hitchhiker, but i agree that a group of male hitchhikers would seem more dangerous to me not creepy, though; danger is clearly not necessary for creepiness. earthworms, socially awkward people, garter snakes, cockroaches, etc., are all considered creepy by most people despite the total lack of danger nor is danger sufficient for creepiness. the people who i've most seen victimize others have zero creepiness; in fact, they push the creepometer into negative numbers. they're anti-creepy. creepy people suck at victimizing others because they attract attention and because their possible victims are suspicious of them. so i strongly disagree with your assertion that 'creepiness happens prior to victimization'. derek chauvin was not creepy. donald trump was not creepy. elizabeth holmes was not creepy. the guys who mugged me on the train were not creepy if we want to limit the topic specifically to sexual assault, my own personal experience is that i've only ever been sexually assaulted by one or two people, both women; but most of the other people i know who have been sexually assaulted (that i know of) have only ever been sexually assaulted by men however, your rhetorical question, 'i think we both know, that's how it is, if we're being honest. no?!' is super creepy. your implication that anyone who disagrees with you is simply being dishonest about their true beliefs, and their true desires are the same as your desires even though they're saying the opposite, that makes me want to reach for my pepper spray or find a bouncer. i'm glad you don't know where i live