Have you considered those left-behind to be those who have been hurt, too? Addressing the bad may allow them to process mixed, or even "shameful" feelings about

Have you considered those left-behind to be those who have been hurt, too? Addressing the bad may allow them to process mixed, or even "shameful" feelings about someone's passing. Feelings they can't voice, because of your "you can't speak ill about the dead". > was solely based on his being an unapologetic Christian I have my suspicions what's implied by this... and how that may be perceived as indeed very hurtful and destructive to some.