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Perhaps we need to identify a substitute before quitting a certain thing? Something pleasurable and beneficial (not work). Like reading a book. Simply cutting
by chippy 3y ago
Perhaps we need to identify a substitute before quitting a certain thing? Something pleasurable and beneficial (not work). Like reading a book.
Simply cutting something out will leave a gap where that something was. We should fill it with things of our choosing otherwise it will be filled up with something of a similar gap shaped thing!
- endemic 3y agoExactly -- don't resist, replace.
- boringg 3y agoIsnt the best option to never have started using social media and creating that loop in the first place?
- cooper_ganglia 3y agoThe best time to plant a tree is 20 years ago. The second-best time is now.
- zogrodea 3y agoI think that's true generally but: - It's possible that social media changes some peoples' lives for the better. (I do have a few friends who married people they got to know on social media, and I know the good things that have happened to me because of social media outweigh the real but less significant harms.) - It's possible that the thing one replaces social media ("replace, don't resist") with outweighs the harm they received from social media too. - I think we're mostly trying to work with practical solutions of how to mitigate harm instead of wishing we could change the past.
- mdhen 3y agoThat's not an option though, is it? Not for those already affected.