> Not to mention that every “polyamorous” society eventually settles into polygamy—-and that’s poison. Expect a reckoning when that happens. I don’t understand

> Not to mention that every “polyamorous” society eventually settles into polygamy—-and that’s poison. Expect a reckoning when that happens. I don’t understand this statement. Is having multiple spouses (which is what polygamy is — husbands or wives) a poison compared to having multiple lovers?