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I strongly believe that is mono people would be better served by accepting poly as a sexual identity, why? Because then, given that there is no shame, this inco
by zamalek 3y ago
I strongly believe that is mono people would be better served by accepting poly as a sexual identity, why? Because then, given that there is no shame, this incompatibility could be established upfront - thereby decreasing the likelihood of being cheated on.
Unfortunately people might still be swayed to date someone that they are extremely attracted to, and not disclose the incompatibility - the old "they have an open relationship, but only one practices." Or just getting cheated on. Still, I think that the incidence of cheating would be vastly decreased.
It's the old positive sum game, by giving them what they want, we get what we want.
- locopati 3y agoIt's not a sexual identity. It's a relationship structure. Poly folks can be in mono relationships and vice-versa. I agree that being up front about the kind of relationship structure is desired would help weed out incompatibility.