Here's my take You are part of the world. You change and improve and also decay and die. These things are natural, they do not need to be forced. Sometimes for

Here's my take You are part of the world. You change and improve and also decay and die. These things are natural, they do not need to be forced. Sometimes forcing something makes it happen faster, but oftentimes its like forcing taking a shit: you just end up more constipated. Here's the principal: be able to wait until the right action arises on it's own. Perform the action and step away. You are a human, a complex biological organism. Actions are part of your nature. Let your emotions and actions happen with serenity and grace. There is nothing to gain by forcing them except to create your own constipation.