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Ask HN: With all the layoffs – how are you?
IANAeLmo
Wanted to check how everyone is doing. Especially given all the continued layoffs that are going on.
What are you all doing with your free time? What are you doing to not fall into a depressive hole?
And if you're doing okay - what advice can you share to help those out there who may be struggling?
Thank you
- rdhayes 3y agoFind things to work on yourself; cooking, exercise... Reach out to your network to see if there are jobs available. If you don't have a network, take this time to start building one.
- md1348 3y agoDo you have tips on building a network? As an introverted developer at a non-tech company in a third-string city, I find few in-person opportunities to talk shop with thoughtful programmers. When it comes to the internet, I feel like I don't have anything valuable to add to the conversation.
- p1esk 3y agoIn that case, building things might be a better idea than building a network. Build something, put it on GH, post it here as ShowHN. If you’re a good developer people will notice.
- mech422 3y agoany users groups or maker spaces around you could try ?
- playing_colours 3y agoIf you have motivation and time, find a niche, a project you are interested to dig into. Spend a month on learning about it, write some code. Then contact OSS contributors working in that area, show interest to learn and contribute. It may work. Good lick!
- bravetraveler 3y agoI'm the kind of person that physically churns at the idea of networking, but realize I benefited from it My suggestion: keep unusual avenues open. I got my start through a game - Counter Strike I met the right person who worked at the right place/knew my interests
- coldbrewed 3y agotl;dr: complicated; I'm looking at leaving tech. Last year I was working 12 hour days at a startup with regular spikes into 14-18 hour days, until I was abruptly and unceremoniously laid off. I've been dealing with varying degrees of burnout since 2017 but this experience rocketed me to all new levels of burnout; I couldn't stand to be at a computer for several months after the layoff. I was hoping that time off would help, but after being in the industry for 19 years I think I'm just done. I used to really enjoy software development but these days completing most tasks feels like pushing through thorns. Between chasing down failures within GitHub actions, writing piles upon piles of YAML instead of real code, futzing around trying to debug a crashing process within a Kubernetes pod -- or generally trying to beat misbehaving clusters into submissions, waiting for Terraform runs to complete, etc, I spent more time shaving yaks rather than doing rewarding tasks. On top of that, agile has turned into "the product team has the attention span of a squirrel so good luck cranking out half-baked features without having any idea of what next week will look like!" Software engineering as a discipline feels like it's become more hectic, more needlessly complicated, more grating and much, _much_ less rewarding than what it was a decade ago. I wrote a great deal of open source code, I've got applications that have millions of downloads, I even have code running on the ISS; regrettably the satisfaction that I got from shipping features that thrilled customers has basically vanished. It's important to me that I take pride in my work and know that I genuinely did a good job rather than shovel software as fast as humanly possible. That feeling hasn't shown up in 5-7 years. I find that I still enjoy writing software. Recently my girlfriend was diagnosed with a number of allergies and I had a lovely time writing a Rust app that OCRed a product ingredient list, queried a the Pubchem and CAS databases to resolve food/cleaning product/cosmetic ingredients and determine if they contained any allergens, and I'm likely going to keep working on that for a while. Recently I picked up a project (shelved during the pandemic) building a scaled replica of the Curiosity/Perseverance rovers and getting into ROS/machine learning/SLAM has been a delight. It's fun, it feels natural, and I don't feel gross doing it. I've still got the skills, even if I'm not working. In the current macroeconomic conditions, finding another job would mean a ton of work crafting the perfect resume, grinding the joy out of life via leetcode, and going through endless interviews. The idea makes me physically sick, one year after getting laid off. When you add that emotional state on top of the profound fear of being hired as a SWE and then getting stuck writing Terraform or being an emotional caretaker for Kubernetes, the end result is complete paralysis in my process of applying for jobs. Over the last few years I picked up my Firefighter I/II certifications and got my EMT license; I'm currently midway through the recruit fire academy as a volunteer for a nearby fire department. I'm seriously considering becoming an ER tech at a nearby hospital to make ends meet and build experience in pursuit of becoming a career firefighter. At present it feels like trying something new is worth a shot; if nothing else I feel like I'll be able to take some pride in doing some real, tangible good for people. I have complicated feelings about the prospect of a career that's going to have worse hours, less pay, be more physically demanding, and will expose me to emotional and physical trauma. But a long time ago I took so much pride in my work; I was proud to call myself a software engineer and felt like I was able to make a difference. In summary -- maybe tech has changed, maybe I've changed, but getting laid off may have been the final straw for me. I'm looking into alternative careers that might be a better match for my needs.
- gngoo 3y agoPretty good. Expected to be out of a job by now. But surprisingly I’m not. Otherwise making great life experiences and enjoying life. It’s been all uphill since 2021.
- the_only_law 3y agoFine now, but I was out of work most of 2023. I was not prepared for this market. > And if you're doing okay - what advice can you share to help those out there who may be struggling? I hear the market isn’t doing much better. I was saved by the grace of a referral, but I’m confident remote work is dead for most reach workers. Part of the reason I was out of work so long was that remote was my one hard requirement. I was willing to take a massive salary cut for a remote role, but could never make it past the first round. For on site roles (which I honestly used for interview practice) I usually got much further. Even the job I managed to get started out hybrid, and now upper management is slowly trying to claw us back in full time, despite being warned of retention issues.
- 0cVlTeIATBs 3y agoDepressive hole here. Seeing the concept of finding my first job in tech as near hopeless for someone like me, who has weak network/hustling skills. Going to events I've met other unemployed people, many friends/acquaintances are unemployed or laid off, and differentiating myself from any of them is a social challenge I've never prepared for. It feels worse when it's apparent that to do so, I need relevant work experience and what relevant education I have is not what counts. When I consider the advice to seek an "adjacent" position and then move to the role I want internally, it feels like I'm in an even worse position because to work tech support, any customer-facing experience is preferable, meaning anyone who's worked retail has yet another leg up on me. Well, you asked. I'd rather not try to give advice even if I have any.
- random9749832 3y ago> finding my first job in tech as near hopeless for someone like me, who has weak network/hustling skills This. I came in thinking as long as I become as great as possible at engineering, creating useful things and even grinding out algorithm problems it would be enough eventually. Even contributed to a few popular open source repositories. But guess what, in an interview despite acing all the technical questions and programming problems; I ended up being told that despite showing great ability that I "wasn't engaged enough in the interview and were concerned by my motivation". I literally got told this after my 6th and final interview. At that point I understood, it is not just your ability that matters but how much the interviewer likes you as a person and they can discriminate you for anything without you helping it. I would even bet that even if I were to get the job I would be dealing with office politics seen as it has people like this in there. This was a big tech company.
- mech422 3y agoHang in there - first jobs are always a PITA... You might be able to get some relevant 'work' experience by volunteering somewhere while you look? (though, that doesn't put food on the table...)
- ipaddr 3y agoDon't go into tech support expecting to move in programming at that comoany. It's harder to do because they see you as tech support based on your role. Volunteering or open source work might give you that initial experience.
- ChrisArchitect 3y agoRelated yesterday: Ask HN: Is the job market is bad as everyone claims it is? https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39203937 https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=39203937
- mech422 3y agoI quit my previous position back in May '23, and am just starting to put any effort in looking. Seeing a bunch of jobs but the all seem pretty boring/run-of-the-mill stuff. I'm mostly just relaxing - I basically took 6 months off tech. in general and hung out with family, relaxed, and slept :-D
- swah 3y agoSo you got months and months of savings - that is not the reality for most people.
- bluecheese452 3y agoDid he say it was? He is just sharing his experience.
- gaws 3y agoIt's implied
- revskill 3y agoI'm interested in knowing more details on which positions is affected the most, the second,...
- kaaaate 3y agoSurprisingly well at the moment, but I was terrible last year... I got layer off in January 2023 before I even started my role with Avanade. I quit my job at a mining startup (which recently got bought for 45mil AUD, which I could've got a cut of if I stayed there and dealt with SA) to go work for Avanade. One of the worst decisions I've ever made since it caused my fiancé to break up with me (which caused a mental health crisis). Got some dosh out of them which was good (because they breached my contract), didn't even sign the release documents to get the money and make me shut up (but I got the money anyway). Was working at a mining equipment company and developing copy protection/DRM there, and I got sacked the day after I completed the project. I was unable to get a job for a while because both of my previous bosses gave the worst references ever and went dead silent after I confronted them about it :/ But I'm back on my feet with a dev job working for my State Government (in the Health Sector) which is quite lovely, and my co-workers aren't assholes for once!
- VirusNewbie 3y agogood resilience, it's not easy picking yourself up after some rough breaks. Glad to hear it's going well.
- kaaaate 3y agoIt was hard, but with enough effort, fixing mental health issues, and mass applying to jobs (about 300 from August to December 2023), you can get there in the end. I only got about 4 interviews in total; an insurance company (ghosted), WA Police (turned down), Atlassian (ghosted), and HSS (current role). Finding a tech job in 2024 is definitely going to be a lot of luck, mass-applying, and trying to make yourself stand out from other candidates.
- yellowapple 3y agoOn the bright side, being unemployed means I have a lot more time on my hands to work on side projects and open-source work I've been neglecting. Unfortunately, the depressive mental state from being unemployed makes it harder to stay motivated. It ain't the first time I've been laid off, and I'm trying to be optimistic that I'll bounce back again, but it still sucks. I don't know if it's comforting or worrying that I ain't alone.
- taurath 3y agoHaven’t worked in 2 years due to having to take a leave of absence for early life trauma that I desperately needed to process to be healthy. Just now coming back in and it seems I can’t get my resume past an ATS HR system if I’m not currently working.
- whiskey14 3y agoI got laid off, then got tonsillitis which turned into quinsy. Three days in hospital, then got Bells Palsy. I’m meant to be resting and recovering but the job search is always on my mind. Not doing great.
- jacqylfrost 3y agoWorking an industry I hate (Slots), but there's nobody in the area with my kind of skills and experience, so I'm guaranteed a job no matter what, short of severe economic downturn. Kinda wish I wasn't sometimes, would make it easier to escape.
- happyjack 3y agoI'm not a techie, but I love lurking on this website. My only comments from someone who found Linux in high school, used to love computers, the old internet, and used to do scientific computing in Fortran and matlab. I read through some of these posts and feel like I'm on a different planet when it comes to computers. So many packages, podmans, stand ups, etc etc. seems like there's a package, library, git runner whatever for everything. Micro services, web apps, the word app in general. Virtualize everything. When did software design / engineering change so much? Are things really getting better, or is computing power allowing the industry to duck tape a billion things together instead of writing in low level languages and using standard packages and compilers? What are recruiters and companies looking for?
- lurking15 3y agoIt's not getting better in my opinion and I resent most of the stuff I come across on HN because it really is crazy and needlessly complex. Never mind the recruitment and rituals employed by companies which is another soul-sucking aspect.
- sk11001 3y ago> When did software design / engineering change so much? We need to do more complex things, and if you want to do these things efficiently without reinventing things from scratch, you need to rely on different tooling and work on various level of abstraction. > Are things really getting better No but they aren't getting worse either, they're just different (except for the parts that aren't). > or is computing power allowing the industry to duck tape a billion things together instead of writing in low level languages and using standard packages and compilers? Lower level languages aren't better than higher level languages, they serve a different purpose. As a professional, you need to pick the right tools to do your job.
- aristofun 3y agoIt’s only good times when you can afford being depressed. I find great joy thinking about next cycle of growth, imagine how cool it would be, what new great products and tech it will bring.
- nicbou 3y agoSelf-employed and mercifully not affected. I thought that it would affect immigration and thus my business, but no changes so far. Most of my unaffected friends are afraid to change jobs or take risks right now. The fear is real.
- bigbassroller 3y agoI've been wanting to say this: Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Don't have experience? Go on Upwork or Craiglist and grab any job you can. Here's a tip: learn about your competition. Once you do, offer your services for $5 less. This shows you're eager and it's a better strategy than endlessly submitting applications without response. Take any job, excel at it, earn that 5-star review, and build your reputation. Remember, the 'hot hand' has the advantage. Picture yourself as a day laborer outside a U-Haul, ready to say 'I can do it!' first. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. GET HOT ROOKIE!