Good idea and should be normalized. Sometimes unexpected passings are in retrospect, not that unexpected. A colleague passed from routine surgery, at least coll

Good idea and should be normalized. Sometimes unexpected passings are in retrospect, not that unexpected. A colleague passed from routine surgery, at least colleague was very good at reassuring procedure was routine even though back of my mind suggested nature was anything but. Found out success rate was >90% but that was still a dice throw from failure and I kind of wanted colleague to throw a just in case final get together party but didn't know how to articulate that morbid thought into words during a stressful time. Anyway, colleague's passing left a lot of people shocked and took while to process especailly since the entire funeral had to be rushed.