You don't have to identify with your job, maybe just kinda like it. Also, making new friends gets harder at a certain age. It works but it doesn't feel the same

You don't have to identify with your job, maybe just kinda like it. Also, making new friends gets harder at a certain age. It works but it doesn't feel the same as having a friend you know since high school or college. Also making your family, esp kids move every few years sucks really hard for them, never being able to build their circle of friends.