We have 4.5 year old spontaneous fraternal twins and a 2.5 year old singleton. It's been great but it's so incredibly challenging. I've been primary for the twi

We have 4.5 year old spontaneous fraternal twins and a 2.5 year old singleton. It's been great but it's so incredibly challenging. I've been primary for the twins since my wife was pregnant with our son. It's been a real wild ride and if it weren't for pictures I'm not sure I'd be able to remember any of it, honestly. We don't have a ton of help, so I feel rode hard and put away wet most days. But I cut myself a lot of slack in my personal life, like not being as dialed in on my nutrition as I used to be, or missing workouts, etc. I'd have really beaten myself up about this stuff a decade ago. Today, it's not unimportant but it's really not that important, either. But I cannot imagine multiple sets. We rolled the dice with our son and I'm honestly thankful we didn't get another set, I have no idea how we'd have survived that. Kudos to you all for pulling it off!