true, that's a good point. i didn't grow up with much of a supportive family myself, on the other hand i come from a country with strong social support, so i te

true, that's a good point. i didn't grow up with much of a supportive family myself, on the other hand i come from a country with strong social support, so i tend to focus more on the outer society myself, also my social network depends on the openness of strangers. you are right, transcendence of self needs to reach everyone, and especially the outsiders.