This is assuming they aren't challenging them already. Wise people are constantly challenging their views. This doesn't negate's OPs advice at all. The diffe

This is assuming they aren't challenging them already. Wise people are constantly challenging their views. This doesn't negate's OPs advice at all. The difference when choosing a long term mate and starting a family makes the stakes higher. Ideology will dictate customs, schooling, etc.. I do respect married folks who can vote down political lines and stay happily married. These people have a lot to learn from.