I'd start with googling best places to raise a family and start digging in. I'm sure the lists change from year to year. I recently moved and started this way

I'd start with googling best places to raise a family and start digging in. I'm sure the lists change from year to year. I recently moved and started this way. Also, there is no utopia so the "best place to raise a family" in the US might have other negatives, you just need to prioritize.