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> It’s really not. It absolutely is. They are a deviation from the norm in a way that more often than not has negative consequences, in addition to any benefit

> It’s really not. It absolutely is. They are a deviation from the norm in a way that more often than not has negative consequences, in addition to any benefits that may or may not exist. There are plenty of non-autistic people who are perfectly logical, so that point doesn't matter. Autistic people thinking NT people need to be more like them is a result of their thinking being out of whack. Things like tolerance in society are irrelevant to that point.

simondotau 3y ago
The negative consequences almost exclusively stem from autistics interacting with neurotypical. In this case it’s more akin to a language barrier than a “deviation”. It’s only “out of whack” because you’re on one side of that divide and want to otherize people who are different to you. And for the record, you can count me among the people who think that the average person could stand being about 20% more autistic. There’s nothing noble or special about being leashed to emotions and arbitrary social cues.
- PrimeMcFly 3y ago
  > The negative consequences almost exclusively stem from autistics interacting with neurotypical When it's not something to do with sensory overload or having trouble navigating something in the world even without any interaction, sure, almost all that is left is problems with interaction. And even then when the problems are due to interaction, it's not always due to a lack of tolerance or something, it's often due to the autistic person being unable to read social cues and similar, and so that's a negative consequence, not just a neutral difference. > And for the record, you can count me among the people who think that the average person could stand being about 20% more autistic. Yeah that's ridiculous. It's like deaf people wanting people that can hear to be deaf. > There’s nothing noble or special about being leashed to emotions and arbitrary social cues. NT's are not leashed just because some people are, anymore than all NDs need to rock back and forth or something to deal with sensory overload.
  - simondotau 3y ago
    I could easily trigger sensory overload in the vast majority of people. Our society doesn't tend to trigger sensory overload because it's tuned to provide a level of sensory stimulus within a certain arbitrary range which is acceptable to the majority of people. Similarly, most of our built environment is tuned to suit people between 4 and 8 feet tall. Ultimately it's all relative. Social cues are an arbitrary language, and you can find a very wide degree of competence among the NT, let alone ND. Meanwhile some people suck at hand-eye coordination, some people suck at maths, some people suck at social cues, and some people suck at logical deduction. Negative consequences can stem from any of these deficiencies. If you want to single out one of those and call it a disability, my response is whoop-de-doo. Analogising autism with deafness tells me that you've never interacted with an autistic person in anything other than a shallow way, or in a cruel ABA-style setting, rendering this conversation pointless. I can only hope you're speaking from actual ignorance and have no influence over the support given to anyone with medium to severe ASD.
    - PrimeMcFly 3y ago
      This whole comment and line of arguing seems like you're going out of your way to downplay the negative effects of autism while advocating for supposed benefits, and frankly the whole thing reads like you are in denial. > I could easily trigger sensory overload in the vast majority of people.v No, you couldn't. Not easily. It can certainly be easily triggered in the vast majority of autistic people though. > Our society doesn't tend to trigger sensory overload because it's tuned to provide a level of sensory stimulus within a certain arbitrary range which is acceptable to the majority of people It's not arbitrary, it's the result of human evolution. That's like calling the colors range we can see arbitrary. That autistic people can and often are more sensitive is part of the disorder. > Social cues are an arbitrary language, and you can find a very wide degree of competence among the NT, let alone ND. Again, not arbitrary. And yes many NT are competent, many more are not. > Negative consequences can stem from any of these deficiencies. If you want to single out one of those and call it a disability, my response is whoop-de-doo. I didn't say disability, I said disorder, but if you have trouble with the most basic human things, which math and logical deduction are not, then yes, you have a disorder, just like if you have very bad coordination to the point you can't catch, throw or maybe even jump or run well. > Analogising autism with deafness tells me that you've never interacted with an autistic person in anything other than a shallow way It was to make a point in a specific context, and that point is valid. Maybe don't make more of it than it is. > I can only hope you're speaking from actual ignorance and have no influence over the support given to anyone with medium to severe ASD. You say this simply because I think it's ridiculous that you think most people should be more autistic. Which again, is a ridiculous argument and stance, and you should be ashamed for having it and maybe do a whole lot of self-reflection and maybe be honest with yourself about why you think that.

simondotau 3y ago

The negative consequences almost exclusively stem from autistics interacting with neurotypical. In this case it’s more akin to a language barrier than a “deviation”. It’s only “out of whack” because you’re on one side of that divide and want to otherize people who are different to you. And for the record, you can count me among the people who think that the average person could stand being about 20% more autistic. There’s nothing noble or special about being leashed to emotions and arbitrary social cues.

PrimeMcFly 3y ago
> The negative consequences almost exclusively stem from autistics interacting with neurotypical When it's not something to do with sensory overload or having trouble navigating something in the world even without any interaction, sure, almost all that is left is problems with interaction. And even then when the problems are due to interaction, it's not always due to a lack of tolerance or something, it's often due to the autistic person being unable to read social cues and similar, and so that's a negative consequence, not just a neutral difference. > And for the record, you can count me among the people who think that the average person could stand being about 20% more autistic. Yeah that's ridiculous. It's like deaf people wanting people that can hear to be deaf. > There’s nothing noble or special about being leashed to emotions and arbitrary social cues. NT's are not leashed just because some people are, anymore than all NDs need to rock back and forth or something to deal with sensory overload.
- simondotau 3y ago
  I could easily trigger sensory overload in the vast majority of people. Our society doesn't tend to trigger sensory overload because it's tuned to provide a level of sensory stimulus within a certain arbitrary range which is acceptable to the majority of people. Similarly, most of our built environment is tuned to suit people between 4 and 8 feet tall. Ultimately it's all relative. Social cues are an arbitrary language, and you can find a very wide degree of competence among the NT, let alone ND. Meanwhile some people suck at hand-eye coordination, some people suck at maths, some people suck at social cues, and some people suck at logical deduction. Negative consequences can stem from any of these deficiencies. If you want to single out one of those and call it a disability, my response is whoop-de-doo. Analogising autism with deafness tells me that you've never interacted with an autistic person in anything other than a shallow way, or in a cruel ABA-style setting, rendering this conversation pointless. I can only hope you're speaking from actual ignorance and have no influence over the support given to anyone with medium to severe ASD.
  - PrimeMcFly 3y ago
    This whole comment and line of arguing seems like you're going out of your way to downplay the negative effects of autism while advocating for supposed benefits, and frankly the whole thing reads like you are in denial. > I could easily trigger sensory overload in the vast majority of people.v No, you couldn't. Not easily. It can certainly be easily triggered in the vast majority of autistic people though. > Our society doesn't tend to trigger sensory overload because it's tuned to provide a level of sensory stimulus within a certain arbitrary range which is acceptable to the majority of people It's not arbitrary, it's the result of human evolution. That's like calling the colors range we can see arbitrary. That autistic people can and often are more sensitive is part of the disorder. > Social cues are an arbitrary language, and you can find a very wide degree of competence among the NT, let alone ND. Again, not arbitrary. And yes many NT are competent, many more are not. > Negative consequences can stem from any of these deficiencies. If you want to single out one of those and call it a disability, my response is whoop-de-doo. I didn't say disability, I said disorder, but if you have trouble with the most basic human things, which math and logical deduction are not, then yes, you have a disorder, just like if you have very bad coordination to the point you can't catch, throw or maybe even jump or run well. > Analogising autism with deafness tells me that you've never interacted with an autistic person in anything other than a shallow way It was to make a point in a specific context, and that point is valid. Maybe don't make more of it than it is. > I can only hope you're speaking from actual ignorance and have no influence over the support given to anyone with medium to severe ASD. You say this simply because I think it's ridiculous that you think most people should be more autistic. Which again, is a ridiculous argument and stance, and you should be ashamed for having it and maybe do a whole lot of self-reflection and maybe be honest with yourself about why you think that.