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If you value kindness, consider empathy. The person you're somewhat haughtily tone policing is obviously annoyed about wasting a totally unnecessary amount of t

If you value kindness, consider empathy. The person you're somewhat haughtily tone policing is obviously annoyed about wasting a totally unnecessary amount of time on something ultimately useless to them. And the feedback was constructive (and easily actionable): be upfront about the very limited platform support, don't waste people's time.

tptacek 3y ago
You're trying to high horse a complaint about someone referring to a new open source release as "worse than bad"? Because it doesn't support their preferred operating system? And it took them too many clicks on the website to learn that? No, that won't do.
- depressedpanda 3y ago
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  - tptacek 3y ago
    I don't think there's a way to talk yourself back up onto the horse here. Drive-by barbs like "worse than bad" are a plague on this site. It was a rude complaint about the website for an open source project, and it was called out civilly. Ironically, it's your personalizing response that skirts closest to incivility. You can just disagree next time (if you really want to) without lecturing people on empathy? I think that strategy might work better.
    - depressedpanda 3y ago
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    - thomastjeffery 3y ago
      You seem really choosy about whom you apply your empathy. If I had chosen more direct words, and written my criticism with less emotion, then you clearly wouldn't have any issue with it. My comment has 81 points at the time of writing this one. Clearly the majority opinion here is that the substance of it was worthwhile. God forbid humans express emotion on the internet. You are welcome to criticize my expression. To simply filter it out as bad internet speak is, at the very least, a bad strategy.
      - tptacek 3y ago
        You used a tropey put-down. You couldn't even find an original way to dunk on the project. I have a lot of empathy to allocate this scenario, but it's unclear why any of it should go to you. I don't mean to keep a flagged, unproductive subthread going, but since you're listening to me: stop writing that way on HN. Stop dunking on people's open source projects. Be careful with how you write criticism. The preceding commenter was absolutely right to call out the snark in that comment. If you don't call that stuff out, it spreads like kudzu, and pretty soon we're all just writing Youtube comments. They did you a favor, and you should thank them for it.
        thomastjeffery 3y ago
        You're the one dunking here.

tptacek 3y ago

You're trying to high horse a complaint about someone referring to a new open source release as "worse than bad"? Because it doesn't support their preferred operating system? And it took them too many clicks on the website to learn that? No, that won't do.

depressedpanda 3y ago
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- tptacek 3y ago
  I don't think there's a way to talk yourself back up onto the horse here. Drive-by barbs like "worse than bad" are a plague on this site. It was a rude complaint about the website for an open source project, and it was called out civilly. Ironically, it's your personalizing response that skirts closest to incivility. You can just disagree next time (if you really want to) without lecturing people on empathy? I think that strategy might work better.
  - depressedpanda 3y ago
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  - thomastjeffery 3y ago
    You seem really choosy about whom you apply your empathy. If I had chosen more direct words, and written my criticism with less emotion, then you clearly wouldn't have any issue with it. My comment has 81 points at the time of writing this one. Clearly the majority opinion here is that the substance of it was worthwhile. God forbid humans express emotion on the internet. You are welcome to criticize my expression. To simply filter it out as bad internet speak is, at the very least, a bad strategy.
    - tptacek 3y ago
      You used a tropey put-down. You couldn't even find an original way to dunk on the project. I have a lot of empathy to allocate this scenario, but it's unclear why any of it should go to you. I don't mean to keep a flagged, unproductive subthread going, but since you're listening to me: stop writing that way on HN. Stop dunking on people's open source projects. Be careful with how you write criticism. The preceding commenter was absolutely right to call out the snark in that comment. If you don't call that stuff out, it spreads like kudzu, and pretty soon we're all just writing Youtube comments. They did you a favor, and you should thank them for it.
      - thomastjeffery 3y ago
        You're the one dunking here.