Nobody is telling you not to discuss your feelings, but there's a difference between taking adult responsibility by saying something like: "I was not emotion

Nobody is telling you not to discuss your feelings, but there's a difference between taking adult responsibility by saying something like: "I was not emotionally equipped to watch Mr. Rogers; I had a very hard time dealing with the feelings that arose when I watched that show". And shifting the responsibility to him, by implying that he was a creep of a person.