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> It's an interesting case-study on how society reacts to outliers And sadly, as you experienced, that reaction is often negative. I've done quite a few thing
by grecy 3y ago
> It's an interesting case-study on how society reacts to outliers
And sadly, as you experienced, that reaction is often negative.
I've done quite a few things in my life that are "not normal", and the negative responses are utterly incredible. It would appear the more miserable a person is in their life, the more they want to lash out at someone doing something different to try and get away from that miserable. Almost like they want you to stay trapped in the miserable because they themselves feel trapped, and they feel cheated knowing someone else has (or is trying to) escape.
I find this shockingly true in Australia (where I'm from, but have not lived for almost 20 years). The national pastime is winging (complaining), but if you change your life to do something else, people will very quickly put you down and tell you to get right back into line. I always have a strong feeling that society says it's unacceptable for adults to just "play" or "have fun" for the sake of having fun. Everyone expects you to grow up and get a miserable job and be miserable like everyone else, and if you do anything that looks even remotely fun you'll be cut down like a tall poppy
- CHB0403085482 3y agoMisery loves company like crabs in a bucket..