I am interested in what she does, but she takes no delight in explaining it to me, or explains it to me in a way that assumes I have no knowledge at all. I was

I am interested in what she does, but she takes no delight in explaining it to me, or explains it to me in a way that assumes I have no knowledge at all. I was home last week and definitely felt more understood, even by random strangers in coffee houses. I felt instantly validated. I just never feel that with her, or rarely. It hurts because we genuinely have good chemistry together and I care deeply for her and her me